Making a Pass

During a group training long run on Saturday, I stumbled upon a problem in running etiquette. And I think it’s an interesting one to share here because it’s a problem that arose trying to avoid a different running etiquette problem.

Here’s the situation: The fastest runner in our training group is a woman. About 100 of us were out for a 12-miler. She surged to the front almost immediately. I settled into my pace and established myself about 25 yards behind her. For the full 12 miles we ran nearly identical paces. I never caught up to her, and she never got beyond about 40 yards.

In the last mile, I was feeling pretty good, and maintaining my pace, but she slowly began to fade back to me. Without about a quarter-mile left, I was on her heels. That’s when the problem hit.

Should I pass her? After running behind her for 11 and 3/4 miles? Wouldn’t she think I was being a jerk, trying to avoid ”getting chicked” even though it was just a training run? So I slowed down, and finished right behind her.

I thought about it afterwards, and decided I probably would have done the same thing in the same situation even in a race. If you’re in the middle-of-the-pack what difference does it make if you finish 354th or 355th? Then I thought I probably would have done the same thing if it were a kid or an older runner in front of me, but I would have sprinted if I determined the runner was in my age group.

It also would have been different had we been jockeying back and forth the entire way. In that case, passing her at the end would not have stood out. Yes, there are a million different permutations for an uncommon situation, but after 12 miles I wasn’t prepared to think it all through to its logical conclusion.

I would be interested to hear what you think. Was it smart to avoid a negative impression, or was it condescending? Is a race different from a training run? Does it make a difference if it’s a “chick” or a “geezer“?

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